… putting away falsehood, let all of us speak the truth to our neighbours, for we are members of one another (Ephesians 4:25).
Be careful of the coffee shop you walk into. That is
an awareness impressing itself on my consciousness the last while. This morning
my preferred quiet time was interrupted by a noisier than usual scraping of
chairs at a nearby McDonalds; a couple of old guys getting settled. Two minutes
later they recognized another patron, more scraping of chairs and resettlement
at another place, then noisy entrance of a few more. None of this is
very unusual, except that it was only the beginning. Full room volume needed no
greetings, as they may have known each other “since Adam,” with tones of voice
becoming the announcement of everything going on in their heads. Now I was learning of what Canada is trying to pull over on Alberta. I tried to
concentrate on the Canuckle game before me, but it being an easy one today, in
short order I had it solved, and then back to the room volume, unavoidable, especially
with my trial hearing aids doing a good job! I hastened an exit outa there.
Of late I have also become a bit of a grump regarding
‘after church lunches’, in local restaurants of choice. Topic of these meetings
are not politics or even religion, because there are varying flavors and tastes
even among us church folk, so we talk about nothing, usually moderated by the
guy with the loudest voice. Of late on several occasions, I have negotiated
with my wife so she nicely excuses me and then shows up without her grumpy husband.
So what gives? Is it just me, a life-time
characteristic of this old preacher on pills, or is this perhaps a trend worthy
of a little thoughtful commentary? I am choosing the commentary option,
probably because of one of two reasons: One, I prefer speaking plainly
about things, “I says it as I sees it”; or Two, the biblical reason, “I
cannot but speak of what I have seen and heard” (Acts 4:20). Here we go.
Us seniors are the problem. I have posited in previous blogposts, that at this point in the first quarter of the twenty-first century, us threescore and ten plus seniors are the good lifers. We were born just after World War ll, and most of us have not lived with the trauma and uncertainty of our parents or grandparents, no dirty thirties and no world wars. Therefore, almost all of us are pioneers in a new freewill, free to do as we pleased, most of our parents delighted to have us able to make these important decisions, and so we pursued education and/or careers as per our own choosing, most of us happily paying our own way.
We are the architects of the Canada or
America we now live in. This is the reason many of us in churches or social
clubs have the wherewithal to go for dinners whenever wherever we please, go on
vacations as per choices, and of course treat our children and grandchildren
with all those special things we did not quite have ‘when we were little.’
This is why the volume in coffee shops, restaurants or
watering holes is so loud. We are these goodlifers talking with those
growly know-it-all voices. Many have it well worked out with their financial
planners, and now support politicians and businesses according to those
apparently good private enterprise values. This is why the socialists are unpopular
even in church crowds – including the fundamentalists and the liberals.
From this vantage we’ve got to be careful, good stewards of our resources, can’t get too soft on those homeless
and the druggies because they are living with consequences of choices they made.
So we theorize and tell loud stories, all the while avoiding the pain of a few
drug addicts or alcoholics in all of our families. This goes on among the churched
as well as the unchurched.
Except for one thing, and this is where my little rant
mustneeds also tone itself down. There is in fact something known as the grace
of God. A Bible school verse memorized many years ago is now slapping me upside
the face, For by
grace you have been saved through faith, and this is not your own doing; it is
the gift of God— not the result of works, so that no one
may boast (Ephesians
2:8-9). Also now I remember a sermon preached about a year ago in our church by
one of our own, and a financial planner at that! It was the gospel story of the
vineyard owner who at end of day paid all his workers the same, the early
risers and the latecomers, same shekels at the end (Matthew 20). Not only was this an excellent sermon about the equalizing power of God's grace, but I also enjoyed it appearing from among us, especially significant in my
tradition the Mennonites, where we believe the authority of the Word rests in
our midst, as easily proclaimed by a layperson as by an ordained pulpiteer
(Matthew 18:20). The message came loud and clear to and from our midst.
And so it
behooves me, it behooves all of us, to be a little less cocksure of our
analysis of things going on these days. It is by God’s grace that those of us who call ourselves Christians live and move and have our being. In this grace I venture
some occasional half-baked ideas. Also by this grace I am willing to hear the response of others, whether in agreement or disagreement. To
think of it this way could well lower the volume of many coffee klatches. Come to think of it, there’s
a Bible verse for that too!