Tattoos
seem to be everywhere. The tattoo parlors or ink shops must be doing a booming
business. Where or when
is the beginning of these things? My query goes to Google, the quick 'n easy research, and the answer somehow does not shock me. According to a recent find in the Italian Alps, archaologists determine that tattoos have been inscribed on humans for about 5300
years! So much for my observation that tattoos are a new trend.
In my previous ‘tome’ critiquing us noisy oldtimers, I was kind of saying that we can blame ourselves for some of today's things we don't like. This time however, I must absolve us old guys, sharing instead a concern about a younger generation's lean toward tattoos (idolatry)? What impetus is it that requires big dollars to employ a tattooist to poke owies into a customer’s skin? Or who are the ones willing to submit to this, and what brings on the occasion? Is it after heart-to-heart conversation, or therapy sessions where the client perhaps cries some heartfelt tears and the artist interprets and transcribes? Is it self-mutilation or self-indulgence, transferring emojis or slogans onto skin? Mom? A Bible verse? Or? I do not have answer to these questions because I have not yet felt free enough to ask personal questions of these moving tubes or billboards. Whatever the answers, I'm guessing it's about ... communication.
What is communication? The province of Alberta comes to mind. A referendum has just been completed – ten questions to identify the people’s feelings about our place in this country. Do we like our place within Canada or should we begin a separation process? The response was an overwhelming affirmative; we stay in Canada, but the nine questions on immigration, health care, and economy issues ended almost all in the 50-50 category, and much challenge ahead for our premier! At this point the topic seems more about stance than communication.
Therein lies a challenge. The house across the street from us has new owners, and recently yielded their referendum vantage - Let Alberta Decide - posted on the front lawn. We, ahem, us longtime residents, have exact opposite point of view. Also, for the last number of months there has been a blue Alberta flag flapping just a bit down the back alley behind our house. We are of a considerably strong opinion that the current separatist vantage is self-centered, including similar opinion about a government that would posit these divisive possibilities at mid-term. Not only a terrible waste of money, but to me the psychology of it all is even more damaging. Money is at the heart of Alberta separatists (including our premier) because apparently we are spending disproportionately in support of other provinces who don’t pay their fair share! My thinking, how dare one of ten provinces lift itself above the others, claiming no fair. Arrogance and independence thinking does not work for the benefit of a country.
Now back to the new neighbors across the street. We also have something in common, recently discovered they also are Christians, and attend a new church meeting in a local theatre. By now they also know that I am a preacher – retired obviously. They don’t know all my sentimental pastoring memories, but our faith commitment is a common bond already talked about, and they treat us very nice, just like the other neighbors who know an old preacher lives here! Something about this connects with my tattoo thoughts. The old preacher may just be a clergy stereotype (watch your language), or possibly some confusion (he wears jeans a lot, and he used to be a trucker, parked his big truck in the back alley), etc. What have I communicated during these last thirty-six years living here? Tattoos, referendums, lifestyle and families; it would have been good to just speak openly and honestly about all this; better than looking at signs.
These statements on young arms and necks and faces and legs and torsos (yes also on one arm of the young man across the street); how might we speak honestly and perhaps honorably about this? I know communication is much more than words. This time, however, seems that words are important, complete with eye contact. Wrong beginnings can of course lead to lots of miscommunication, the very thing that makes for threats, brawls, calling the cops even! The right words, however, can accomplish amazing things. In other words, be aware of your own frame of mind, “Let your conversation be always full of grace, seasoned with salt” (Colossians 4:6).
So even among new trends utilizing old modes, why not just kind, enquiring words? Perhaps this corner of our city will yet become a village – another old time idea - where we know about and care for one another, understanding not only weird pictures on our arms, but also the separatists, and even why this old preacher used to park his truck in the back alley.
