Just yesterday I sent a quick one-sentence message to my sizeable batch of sisters and brothers. It was a sentimental memo of an interesting mishap that occurred once-upon-a-time along with the ‘free labor’ that we all provided in the operation of our family farm. Sixty years later it is hilarious, although some tears were shed at the time. Those were the good old days. Now that I think of it, that old story may get another rerun at an old-timers’ coffee klatch one of these days.
That farm memory erupted in my head just a few days ago. It was also at a coffee time, but this one not with old-timers; it was with two young guys, dear friends whom I have known for about five years by now. Newcomers to this country, these ‘meetings’ can only be scheduled if they do not interfere with constantly changing employment - entry jobs like security, cleaning, safety companionship, English classes, Uber driving, etc. By now these friendships also include church services, funerals, community gatherings, family visits. As we become ever better acquainted in this strange new country, there are real interests and real issues that easily make up the agenda. When these topics show up the eyes begin to sparkle, lots to talk about as friendship grows.
In addition to this Calgary scene
there is always activity back in South Sudan, not necessarily headlines here in
Canada. It’s brothers, sisters, parents, friends and family struggling and
suffering in ongoing strife with Sudan, and sadly also tribal warfare within their
‘Christian' South Sudan. And along with that, how about the young people now
growing up here along with parents (some parents missing), making career and
entertainment and relationship choices among many others in this our
multicultural city.
This is real stuff, and yet to
talk about it is a challenge. Sometimes I marvel at their patience with me when
after a few details get mangled in my brain, thanks to my challenged hearing
and our differing accents the ‘truth’ may have got blurred! Then we laugh and
start over again! This is real life conversation; talking about ‘back there’
and ‘here now’. Valuable time eventually becomes precious time because it
is indeed possible to focus on possibilities rather than cynicism or despair. AND
there is a bond; we also fully subscribe to a common denominator, namely our
Christian faith, For where two or three gather in my
name, there am I with them (Matthew 18:20).
Now it’s thinker time again. Common interests, common questions; it seems to me whether the lineage is Mennonites from Russia, or tribal Christians from South Sudan, there are similar challenges. How do we raise our children? My memories of milking cows, pitching hay and driving farm equipment is similar to the agenda being articulated by these young dads. The farm work we did was essential to help our farm yield sufficient income so that we could all be fed and clothed, and learn how to behave ourselves, including listening to our elders and not too many shenanigans. That old agenda is incredibly similar to a recently formed service organization I am learning about. Sudanese-Canadian Youth Talent Association of Alberta is becoming part of this local scene. As outlined in their Mission, Vision, and Values, the program is carefully articulated. My parents did not ‘write up’ their plans, and yet us kids understood exactly what needed doing. Interesting, this Association’s recent application to Revenue Canada includes a sentence might have been used back then, “Our organization is committed to providing structured educational programs that promote life skills and vocational training, for the youth, general public and newcomers to Canada.” [i] I smile as they spell it out carefully, life skills will be fully organized and supervised by qualified basketball and soccer coaches. And vocational training will include sessions on resume writing, mock interviews, and indeed workplace communication. Well, there were differences: we never took classes in communication, and the de-facto sport in my day was hockey, and I know today's urban version of organized sports frightfully expensive. [That's why this preacher's kids did not play hockey. Soccer was barely affordable!] So a nice touch of realism here, basic level of these life-skills will be provided at charity price. It's also in the Bible, Train children in the right way, and when old, they will not stray (Proverbs 22:6). SCYTAA is now a registered charity.
Not only for immigrants to learn, but very important for today's day. Even non-immigrant families need the very things being provided by this newly formed talent association. I am inspired by the vision to keep young people busy and out of trouble. 1 Corinthians 13, in our Bible often referred to as the love chapter, in the old King James Version concludes this way, And now abideth faith, hope, charity, these three; but the greatest of these is charity (:13).
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I recognize just a little inner disonnance at this time. I am not a fundraiser, in fact not at all impressed with some of the new lingo (e.g. in some churches the tithes and offerings now rebranded as donations), and do not appreciate solicitors' phone calls at suppertime thanking me for my recent supportiveness (really?) and can they count on more of the same, or maybe double the amount? Donate buttons show up in the middle of and at the end of almost everything online. So, even though unimpressed by all this latest ... this one time it's the right way! It is an easy way to participate in a very legitimate thing, and even revenue Canada will add their blessing at years' end. See the button? 😊 Sudanese-Canadian Youth Talent Association is a morality thing in this country of Canada. This is for all of us. It's better for our young people to play soccer than to hang out with their devices or in shopping centers.
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______ [i] Sudanese-Canadian Youth Talent Association of Alberta, letter of intent, Charitable Organizations, unpublished, August 12, 2025. |
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