One of my least enjoyable experiences is to get hung up on. It has not happened often in my life, but those recalls are still vivid in my mind. The fact that you remember those incidents, complete with conjured up emotion, suggests that these are indeed an aggressive form of communication - or perhaps non-communication. The hang up is an occasion of desperation or at very least extreme irritation. In my once-upon-a-time trucking world it was mainly dispatcher irritation at my nerve to refuse a certain load or too strong opinion from me regarding some office procedure. Needless to say on those occasions it was an ace up his sleeve designed to humiliate, usually bringing on my reaction verbal or mental not worth typing here! The workaday experience of my trucking years, however, pale in comparison to the several times I have encountered same among colleagues/fellow Christians within my community of faith! Within this community I experience near despair if in conversation with one who apparently shares same faith as I - lives by the same principles - and yet chooses an action of the complete opposite; ie an act not only of irritation, but no further desire for communication. Zilch. Nada. There are so many scriptures which teach otherwise. Colossians 3: 16 Let the message of Christ dwell among you richly as you teach and admonish one another, or Ephesians 4: 25 Therefore each of you must put off falsehood and speak truthfully to your neighbor, for we are all members of one body. No further communication needed? Really?
The intent here is not to get into a rant about this. I must, however, present this cowardly act in some further context. Yes, it gets worse especially if we stay with religion! I have just completed reading Inside the Kingdom, by Robert Lacey (Penguin Group, 2009) detailing common methods of discipline and enforcement in Saudi Arabia and neighboring countries like Iraq, Iran, Afghanistan. Public lashings, stonings, hangings and beheadings, those consequences are an ever present possibility for anyone whose behavior or even perceived belief does not conform to the norm. Ironically the extreme 'faithful' are the ones with the least tolerance for deviants (eg Wahhabi, Sharia Law). Also from the good old 'in-God-we-trust' U.S.A. award winning novelist John Grisham describes lynchings and vigilante acts in southern states like Mississippi, Georgia, Alabama; this continuing into the 20th century, well after 1861, end of Civil War and the Emancipation Act. Relational, political and racial examples of prejudicial sinful communications breakdowns often leading to warfare have been since the beginning of time, religion always near center of the action.
Jesus has been there done that. Even as he lived among us (John 1:14) he met ridicule (Mark 14:63; 15:20), suspicion (Matthew 21:23), and even betrayal from his own followers (eg Peter in Luke 22:61). That very One who came to his own (that's us!) is still available to help us learn a new way. The way of Jesus not just for little interpersonal grievances, but for international inter-religious skirmishes, but unavoidably involves interpersonal relationships. Check out Richard Rohr, The Universal Christ (Penguin, 2019). I do not fully subscribe to his theology, but his witness to the all-sufficiency of Jesus is convincing.
I posit here not just a gentle Jesus meek and mild absorbing the crappy behaviors around him, but a radical inter-faith action statement which I believe could be a game changer. It begins with my belief in one big and almighty God, and three major world religions claiming allegiance to this One. Almighty God, Yahweh, or Allah divided and splintered not only three ways but many ways. Muslims fight and kill each other regarding the correct representatives or lineage of The Prophet Muhammad (PBUH), Jews continue in disagreement with their messianic cohorts and of course the literal Zionist claim to Palestine, and Christians splinter into endless denominational interpretations of the significance of Jesus Christ, Savior and/or Lord including agreement or disagreement with the Jewish claim to Jerusalem and surrounding Palestine. History has factions and even wars regarding how to interpret God as three-in-one while Muslims mock that very Trinity while yet following the teachings of Jesus whom they revere as one of their prophets.
These three monotheistic religions would be well served if there were a review of the teachings of Jesus, Son of God, Messiah, Savior, Lord, Prophet, especially as taught once upon a time to a hungry crowd and recorded in sacred writings, Matthew chapters 5 - 7. "Blessed are the poor in spirit, meek, merciful, etc. This is wonderful required reading for anybody, even those who claim no faith, and even us faithful ones doing our jobs in churches and synagogues and mosques. Yes, among the atrocities of enforced religion and among the carelessness with fellow Christians, there are new possibilities. There is an invitation to study Jesus more. I would love to have some conversation about this with anyone from within these religion groupings AFTER reading this sermon on the mount together! 😊
Once upon a time while working as a chaplain in a large hospital I was addressing some thorny issues with the family of a patient. My partner in this pursuit was a Muslim social worker. I still recall a certain point in conversation with all concerned, he posited thoughtfully, "So what would Jesus do?" I well remember this Christian chaplain and that nominal Christian family looking at each other as we recognized the wisdom coming from this gentle Muslim. "What would Jesus do?" I see here an invitation to a new way which comes from Jesus himself, including a good look at how we treat one another in our churches and families. Perhaps a good sermon series about manners from a Muslim imam ... would serve us well.
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